How do you keep your troubled teen from running away, becoming violent towards you or falling out of school for all of these reasons and more? Tough questions for which an organization called The Parent Project has spent 21 years developing successful responses that put parents back in control of their children’s lives. During the week of Aug. 4-8, two authors of “The Parent Project” curriculum, CEO Ralph “Bud” Fry, a former law enforcement officer and Roger Morgan, a child psychologist, were in Bakersfield. Their role was to train several dozen school administrators, teachers and community service providers to be certified facilitators for parents. Training was sponsored by the Kern County Superintendent of Schools Office (KCSOS), Kern High School District and the Truancy Reduction and Attendance Coalition of Kern (TRACK). Certified facilitators do not in teach parents how to be parents. Their role is to involve parents in preventing and interceding in their children’s destructive behavior. As an example, in a Wednesday morning session several very real situations with possible scenarios were presented and those in training were given the task of working together to come up with outcomes and remedies. One of those scenarios revolved around what to do if your child threatens to run away. Several remedies were discussed that resulted in the same outcome — putting the child in a situation where his or her only alternative was to return home. More